Appeals to Women 2. Evokes Positive Associations 3. Unique, clear and easy to remember. Seriously, What girl will find that attractive? This would be a great name for a wrestler that 13 year old boys would find awesome but — for women?
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Something I see all the time is guys adding a bunch of numbers after their name. What are you doing? C-3po and R2-D2 from Star Wars will love that username!!! What in the heck does this mean? Simply that your username should trigger a pleasant feeling for the girl. This creates a connection between those pleasant feelings and YOU. To connect to these pleasant feelings, your username should be any combination of the following: The key here is moderation. Here are a few examples: Ok — Ok, whoever uses that, when you get your dream girl, you owe me big time!
On the other side of the coin, be sure to stay away from usernames that connect to negative feelings or can in anyway be interpreted in a bad way. Here are a few actual usernames I found online that project the wrong image. Some obvious and some not so obvious. Is he talking about sex already? Does he have low self-esteem? Does this guy have a small penis? Does this guy have a vice like a drug problem? Ummmm you can draw your conclusion DaGift2Womens: Yo Yo, will dis gangsta ask her on a date den pop some caps? The last example DaGift2Womens takes us to my final tip to evoke positive associations.
Always use properly spelled words in your username. You could come off like an uneducated dumbass or she may think the guy behind the profile has the maturity level of a 14 year old. Using proper spelling and capitalization not only evokes positive associations as mentioned in Rule 2 but it also makes your username clear and easy to remember. Some dating sites like OkCupid allow the use of dashes — in the username.
This can also be a great option for separating words. Be my guest to email the guy and tell him his username sucks. When I first saw this username I thought it said something about murder! NOT a good impression. The word ur was used instead of the correct spelling your. Just by making those few adjustments you get —ImYourDreamGuy— which looks and sounds much better than whoever he was gonna murder —Imurdreamguy—.
This name still comes off a bit pompous but you see how properly using capitalization and spelling can make a name clear. A rhyme just sticks with us. Here are some username examples that rhyme: Another way to create an appealing username is to use words with letters we rarely use and words with double letters etc.
Contrasting is something else to take into account when creating a memorable username. And the contrast depends on you. I helped Matt with his online dating. He has a high quality dorky photo of himself. He used the dorky photo but used the contrasting username MaleSuperModel. This worked because of the funny contrast. Before you get started creating your own username, here are 50 keywords and 50 off-the-hook kick ass usernames I created, that you can use as your own or as a guide. To help get your creativity flowing, answer the 10 questions listed below. Take out a piece of paper and create two columns or use the username worksheet on page 26 of the workbook in the free kit.
Place your answers in the first column. Other ways to get great keywords: Here is an example of some great words I found by looking up the synonyms of happy. Some quick usernames using these keywords:. Now start combining your keywords to form usernames. Write the combined keywords in column 2 of the worksheet, this is your username list.
Play some music and get to it! Now you will have several usernames that are downright awesome. But there will be a couple that girls find irresistible. Hmmm, how to find out which username is the best? Girls love helping with relationships. So after you create your list of usernames, email them to a few of your girl friends.
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Your new irresistible username is one part of the online dating puzzle. To create Online Dating Synergy you need to get all the parts working together. Also follow me as I attempt to go on Dates in 1 year. Teaching Online Dating BadAssNess ever since gun-slinging was outlawed and losing my brass-knuckles in a game of poker. Thanks for taking the time to read the guide.
I hope you get a lot out of it. Hey eDoc, I used your tips on creating a clever and catchy username. Thanks for the advice and inspiration! My male friend was wondering why his dating profile was getting no hits this website does not show photos but rather matches people by similar interests, education, etc. I stumbled across your website by coincidence. I enjoyed it, your dead on!! I sent a link to your website to him.
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Hi eDoc, I am 45 and just getting to on-line dating for the first time. Scared to death and excited all at once… I appreciate the simple logic that you provide as I agree that having a good username is a great opportunity to make a positive association. I have been trying to learn a little about the process before I jump in with both feet so that I get off on the right foot. This is good candid tutorial to help with the first step. Not very useful to most of us.
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I will also try emailing some of my girl friends and getting feedback on my username, profile, etc… Simple Useful Advice — Thank you. My next step is to sort out what I am looking for in a girl and how I want to represent myself… My concern is that millions of people on these sights have been eDating their whole lives or at least have more experience at it than me. Looking forward to it. Thaks again and good luck on your dates!
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You won the 2nd online dating coaching package. Just found this site last night. Thanks a lot ErnDiggity. I appreciate the feedback.
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